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I come across some thread in some forum (too lazy to copy and paste the address) about some guy being fat and no friends, no girlfriends and hopeless.

Really… I was that guy during my secondary school.

Plus they separate boys and girls class. So from form 2 till form 3 I have no girl classmate. But during form 1 I do have but I fail miserably to talk to any of them. I still remember one of them name “Firdaus”. I remember her because of her name. Maybe she is married already now… Or at some other countries other than Malaysia

Ok. I become quite brave to talk to girls during my form 4 at the other school. But that is because my classmates actually… 10 or 15 person. It’s easier to talk when there is less people. Then some of them enroll into Sekolah Teknik so left 9 of us only. The only class of Pure Science Stream. Huhuhu. Feel so great! Plus our classroom in actually a lab. I like it back then.

But at that time also I seldom talk to girl.

Then I further my study to KPTM Alor Star (back then it was called AIM), at there also I dont actually talkative to any girls. A few only did I get really close (which I still stay in contact till now).

Last semester of my Diploma course, I go for practical training at Telekom Training College (now called Multimedia College - MMC). I was alone. No known friends. Start from then I force myself to be talkative with anyone be it guys (no problem at that) or girls (at first really shy).

What I found out that girls is really nice. I enjoy talking with them (plus flirting which I failed). So slowly I learn to how to get myself talking. The secret is, first smile, then open your mouth, say hi (or Assalamualaikum for muslim), then should they answer you can start talking to them… Really, very easy.

And… Oh! I’m a fat guy. Still fat as I still fail to get myself slim. So being fat is not related to having no friends. If he or she don’t want to befriend with you because you’re fat, then he or she is not really someone you can make friends with. Find somebody else who can accept you as you’re.

Plus I already have steady girlfriend, so being fat, have many friends, and actually have real girlfriends is not impossible. I’ve done it, so can YOU!

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